Having rules like this does not mean we love our girlfriends
any less, but it is part of the responsibility we have to each other as play
partners. Both relationships are significant and require communication and
effort. Neither can be taken for granted.
As previously mentioned, I often involve my girlfriend in my
D/s relationship. If something is playing on my mind it shows and she is
gracious enough to ask if I want to talk about it. This shows a great deal of
trust and patience, which is a beautiful quality in the woman I want to spend
my life with.
By some miracle, the four of us now socialise as well. We
don’t discuss the arrangement, but it isn’t ignored. The fact that we can share
a meal together and enjoy each other’s company as two couples is something
that’s very precious to me. There’s no tension or jealousy; we all know where
we belong.
It is scary to ask for something you really want, but if
you’re ready to have an honest conversation about it, and keep having those
conversations, there is always a chance that it can work out.
Sometimes, better than you’d hoped.
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